age

Growing up, I was always curious about where I would be when I grow up. What job I was going to have, who I was going to marry, where was I going to live, and I couldn't believe any paper that one of my classmates folded with premade answers. But its funny, when we are young, we want to be older. We just want to be 16 so we can drive, we want to be 18 so we can be officially an adult. We want to be 21 so we can drink. Sometimes we don't appreciate youth. But as people get older, they wish they were young again. Kids have it easy, their necessity's are paid for, no bills to pay, adults wish they didn't have to worry about stuff like that. To adults, youth means a fresh new start. a re-do at their life. If only a push of a button could make that possible.

Skills

 The top five skills I want to learn from college are:


1. teamwork


2. organization


3. defusing a situation


4. speaking/communication


5. stress handling


I believe that these five important skills will be necessary to learn, and master before I leave college to have a successful career and to be a awesome dad. With the teamwork skills, its important to be able to work together for a common goal, withier is at work at the police station, which is where I want to work, or at home with the family. With teamwork, comes being able to trust one another. With organization, you don't want to look like a slob when it comes to police uniform, or work desk, it will make 100% more efficient if I know where everything is. It could also be important at home, so you can have a less stressful morning when you are helping your kids get ready for school, or your getting yourself ready for work. When I say defusing a situation, I'm talking about making something that could get out of hand real fast, and just ease the situation, or get it to stop dead in the water. Police officers come to a lot of potential bad situations, and its their job to defuse the situation by talking it out or by arresting someone. when it comes to home life, you never want to be in a screaming match, because that will never get you anywhere, or its important to try to handle a argument between your children and make sure that both sides come away happy. Speaking, or communication is key at work and at home. communication with fellow co workers can make it easier when it comes to the task at hand, or an emergency that requires all hands on deck. when your at home, communicating with your spouse about anything from stuff that stress you out to something that bothered you can save a lot of arguing instead of just bottling it up inside until you get in a huge fight and let it all out. Stress handling can be beneficial as you get older, ad get into more stressful environments. you don't want to build up all this stress from your work or at home, because eventually your going to let it out, and you might regret who you blow up on or when you blow up.